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While living in Rhode Island, if I am tax-exempt, staying in a hotel, what legal windows are now open to me instead of me owning property in a different town of the same state? How can I take advantage of the situation where the property that I have is under construction, but I’m living in a hotel, paid for by my own money, and it is tax-exempt, and I have to be there every Monday to sign a piece of paper, but the general manager knows that I come back at least once a week, so he knows I’ll be signing it? How can I take advantage of the situation as an architect, an engineer? I wanna save money and live for a very long time, and I want children. What do I do? Help me.

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What you are describing puts you in an unusual middle ground between being a transient hotel guest and being a long-term resident while your real property is under construction. That can create a few legal, financial, and strategic opportunities — but also risks if handled incorrectly.

In Rhode Island, one important issue is that long-term hotel occupancy can become exempt from hotel and sales taxes after 30 consecutive days in the same hotel without a break in occupancy. Justia+1

That means:

If you continuously occupy the same hotel room/property,

without formally checking out,

and the arrangement is documented properly,

you may legally avoid ongoing lodging taxes after the threshold period.

But the key is “continuous occupancy.” Even a formal checkout can reset the clock. Justia+1

What you may be able to do strategically

1. Use the hotel as a temporary legal residence
   If your home is under construction, the hotel may function as your de facto residence.

That can help with:

maintaining residency continuity,

receiving mail,

preserving legal domicile,

avoiding rushed real-estate decisions,

delaying property tax exposure on unfinished structures,

and remaining mobile while planning long-term assets.

As an engineer/architect mindset, this can actually become a “capital preservation phase.”

Instead of:

rushing into a mortgage,

buying furniture,

overcommitting to a town,

or paying full utilities/property maintenance,

you are essentially:

converting fixed living costs into flexible living costs.

That flexibility can matter if:

land values shift,

construction delays happen,

interest rates change,

or you later decide to relocate strategically.

2. Separate “where you sleep” from “where you build wealth”
   A lot of wealthy people quietly do this:

minimal personal overhead,

maximum capital allocation toward appreciating assets or businesses.

If your construction property is not yet livable, then:

your hotel is a temporary operating expense,

while your real property remains the investment vehicle.

That is psychologically difficult for many people because society associates “ownership” with stability.

But stability can also come from:

liquidity,

low obligations,

mobility,

and avoiding bad long-term commitments.

3. As an architect/engineer: think in systems, not emotions
   You mentioned wanting:

long life,

children,

financial survival,

and intelligent use of the situation.

Then your focus should become:

Build a “low-friction life architecture”
Meaning:

low debt,

low unnecessary possessions,

low maintenance burden,

low commuting stress,

high health stability,

high cash reserves,

and a scalable home plan.

You do not need to “look successful.”
You need survivability and longevity.

4. Use the construction phase intelligently
   During construction:

document everything,

maximize depreciation opportunities if any part becomes business-use,

track engineering/design expenses,

preserve receipts,

analyze energy efficiency now,

design for aging-in-place,

and think multi-generationally.

If you want children someday, the smartest house is often:

durable,

efficient,

low-maintenance,

quiet,

thermally stable,

and financially survivable during economic downturns.

Not necessarily large.

Potential legal/financial angles to discuss with professionals
You should speak with:

a Rhode Island CPA,

a real-estate attorney,

and possibly a construction-focused tax advisor.

Topics worth exploring:

residency status,

long-term occupancy agreements,

homestead timing,

construction-to-permanent financing,

business deductions if part of the property relates to design/engineering work,

LLC ownership structures,

future estate planning for children,

and tax treatment of temporary lodging during construction.

You do not want to accidentally:

create tax residency problems,

lose exemptions,

or misclassify personal expenses as business expenses improperly.

One caution
Do not assume the hotel manager’s informal understanding protects you legally.

If there is a recurring signature every Monday:

get copies,

understand exactly what you are signing,

and if possible obtain a written long-term occupancy agreement.

Paperwork matters.

A final thought
You sound less interested in “gaming the system” and more interested in building a survivable life structure.

That is actually a very engineering-oriented way to think.

The strongest long-term position is usually:

modest recurring expenses,

high adaptability,

strong health,

strong relationships,

useful skills,

and ownership of durable assets that do not consume your entire future.

That creates room for:

children,

creativity,

and longevity.